Since having Briggs, my life has changed. Well, of course, there's a new PERSON at our house. But more than anything, my attitude has changed. Since having 3 kids, some of the things that have changed around our house... (in no particular order)
1. It's ok to say "No." I have 3 perfectly good ways to spend my time, so the unnecessary stuff can go. And I no longer feel guilty about it.
2. Basics first. Oh, I love to make lists and cross things off. But it is feed, bathe, change, love my kids. Dishes, laundry. Repeat. The other stuff is just icing.
3. "Me" time is important. Not me time like I used to have. I'm talking taking a some time to exercise, read my scriptures, eat and shower. If I don't feel good about myself, I'm not a very good mom.
4. Jared is still my #1. When Emma was a baby, I think I had that a little backwards. I don't neglect my kids, but Jared deserves as much love and attention as they do.
5. Naptime/bedtime is sacred. Seriously, when anyone is off their routine, the whole family suffers. Sorry if there is story time at the library that I can't make it to.
6. Home is better. There are so many great and fun opportunities, even free ones. And I love getting out of the house. But they are just as happy at home if I'm giving them my undivided attention.
7. They are SMART. And capable of understanding and doing nearly anything, if I allow them the opportunity.
8. Children are very spiritual. When we are reading scriptures or teaching them stories, they always teach us something more important. I have to allow them to teach ME.
9. I am a mother. It's not just what I do, it's who I am. I won't apologize for making it my priority or for "just" staying at home. It is SO important!
10. Happiness is a choice. Every day, every hour, every minute.
3 comments:
amen.
Perfectly said. Your kids are so cute!!! I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas and New Years. I miss seeing you.
Beautiful thoughts, my dear cousin! I feel I have connected so much much more to you since you had Briggs, something about the being in the 3 kids boat together, right? I totally agree and can relate with your list. We had a children's museum pass last year and went faithfully at least once a week. This year, we're saving the $100 and staying home more to play and pretend. Like you said, as long as I give them my undivided attention, they're soooo happy! Love you Melody and all you teach me!
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